Make a list of all the reasons it wasn't meant to be. The number one reason should be that this person is not in love with YOU or ONLY YOU and you deserve better than to be someone's back-up between flings, and/ or ego trip. Other reasons may include incompatibility sexually, socially and physically, especially when you imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with this person and remember the ways in which you clash on a regular basis, human memory can be selective, and you may find yourself dwelling on that first kiss in the park, or that time when you laughed till you almost cried...but also remember the times when you felt sad, neglected, unappreciated, betrayed, or even deeply hurt.
I am sure the list might be endless but has he/she ever been there when others left your side or against you? To fix this riddle, pick a notepad, write what you like or dislike about your partner, his/her good and bad sides...we all have our irritating characters (as if you don't know!). If the good outweighs the bad and you can live with the bad side of him/her, PLEASE STAY! But if the bad happens to be what you can't live with, please MOVE ON....
Above all if he/she made you happier than sad, guy/ babes....CHILL JOOO because there is NO MR./MRS. RIGHT OR PERFECT ANYWHERE!!!
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