Reasons Why Women Cheat

Today on Relationship Friday Series, we Would be discussing reasons why most women cheat.
Most times we tag men as the ones who cheat while women stay faithful always. But maybe this was true some decades ago. Since the world is changing and expanding there have been lots of new findings.
Let's dig deeper as we find out what makes some women cheat. Its not that cheating is a good thing or something to be proud of but what can we do ??
In my research on this topic I would be focusing and gliding through with psychologist and expert Renee Lee.

Pastor Says It's Natural For Men To Cheat

83-year-old popular Evangelist, Pat Robertson, has confirmed that all men have a tendency to cheat and it's the duty of the wife to keep her man faithful, by focusing on the positive and making sure the home is so enticing he doesn't want to stray. 

Pastor Robertson said this while responding to the question of a woman who wrote:

"I've been trying to forgive my husband for cheating on me. We have gone to counseling, but I just can't seem to forgive, nor can I trust. How do you let go of the anger? How do you trust again?"

10 Tips For Effective Anger Management in Relationships

by Dr. Susan Heitler
In relationships, we all have our fights, and having the occasional heated debate with your significant other is even healthy. But when these fights cross into full-blown blow-ups, the arguments can quickly get out of hand. Follow these 10 tips for effective anger management if you want to enjoy a lasting, loving relationship.
1. Know when to make an exit. Remove yourself from a situation you can't handle. If you can't gracefully leave the room, gracefully change the topic.

Why You Should Not Look For A Perfect Guy Or Babe

I asked a gentleman how it is that he is never married? He replied, "Well, I guess I just never met the right woman…I guess I've been looking for the perfect girl."

"Oh, come on now," said I, "Surely, you have met at least one girl that you wanted to marry."

He further said, "Yes, there was one girl once. I guess she was the one perfect girl…the only perfect girl I really ever met. She was just the right everything…I really mean that she was the perfect girl for me."

"Well, why didn't you marry her?" I probed further. "She was looking for the perfect man," he said.

11 Things Women Should Admit To Avoid Marital And Emotional Heartbreaks

I know a lot of women would see this as a selfish post to justify men's shameless infidelity but if you look at the BIGGER picture here, you will realise that you are better of not knowing some things. Some things are better not known.
The 11 things women should admit about their guys/men/husbands, to prevent themselves from marital and emotional heartbreaks. This list is not exhaustive but these few did justice to the point of discussion.

JOKE: Only A Woman Knows Who She Loves

One day a man came back early from his office. He was shocked to see his wife with another man - John.

He told his wife to go out of the room. Then he said to John, "What are you doing here? "John replied "I love your wife & she loves me too." To this the man said "I know that my wife loves me & not you."

Little Things That Can Spice Up Your Marriage Again

My name is Dayo. I'm a typical Nigerian guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly, It's another escape from my nagging and boring wife. I get confused sometimes on whether she's my mother or my wife. Don't get it twisted; I love her pieces. It just gets complicated; like I wish we never got married. Marriage has turned her into something that doesn't amuse me. I wish she was still the adventurous, charming, high spirited lady I dated for five years.
A lot of people say its unethical for married guys to be found in a club, but I wish everyone won't be too quick to judge and understand that people look for fun to run away from their problems; they just want to breathe, like me.

Woman to Woman Encouragement: Love Yourself

Someone will always be prettier. Someone will always be smarter. Someone's house will always be bigger. Someone will always drive a better car. Someone will always earn more money. Someone will always travel more. Just let it go. Take care of yourself. Love yourself and your circumstances.

Thinking Of Breaking Up With Your Partner? Read This First!

You may consider reading this before you make that move and it could make your decision making faster and objective...

Make a list of all the reasons it wasn't meant to be. The number one reason should be that this person is not in love with YOU or ONLY YOU and you deserve better than to be someone's back-up between flings, and/ or ego trip. Other reasons may include incompatibility sexually, socially and physically, especially when you imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with this person and remember the ways in which you clash on a regular basis, human memory can be selective, and you may find yourself dwelling on that first kiss in the park, or that time when you laughed till you almost cried...but also remember the times when you felt sad, neglected, unappreciated, betrayed, or even deeply hurt.

Masturbation: Sex Without Partner (1) by Stephen Ebinyo Edwards

I have been asked to write on this topic & I took the time out to do my research & findings: Happy reading.....

Masturbation is a social phenomenon which requires urgent solution. Today, we are talking about terrorism, bomb blasts, kidnappings and other social vices which, if thoroughly investigated, have root in masturbation. In the search for pornography on the Internet, most youths get exposed to sophisticated crime tactics.

What is masturbation?
Masturbation is self-stimulation of the genitals for pleasure and self-comfort. In other words, it is having sex without a partner or having sex with self. Masturbation is derived from Latin word, manus (hand) + Turbare (to disturb), meaning using your hand to disturb or defile your genitals. It spans through all age groups but commoner among our children, especially at the adolescent age.

Differences Between Sex and Love Making

Often times people can't really differentiate between love making and having sex. I have used food analogy to explain the difference between the two in my previous post.

"Just as a cook is different from a chef so is sex different from love making. A chef is an advance cook and love making is advance sex. #SexAndFood"

"Just as everyone is a cook but not a chef so is everyone a 'sexer' but not everyone is a love maker. A chef and a love maker are professionals who had special training/skills. A chef knows what it takes to cook good food and a love maker too knows that sex is just an aspect of love making. A love maker gives attention, shows love and affection and above all, gives good sex...*winks* #SexAndFood"

A Prove That There Is No Way To Please A Woman

A group of girlfriends is on vacation when they see a 5-story hotel with a sign that reads: "For Women Only". Since they are without their boyfriends and husbands, they decide to go in. The Bouncer, a very attractive guy, explains to them how it works.

"We have 5 floors. Go up floor by floor, and once you find what you are looking for, you can stay there. It's easy to decide since each floor has a sign telling you what's inside." The women start going up and on the first floor the sign reads: "All the men here have it short and thin." The friends laugh and without hesitation move on to the next floor.